Loving Like our Heavenly Father

Jesus said we’re to “Be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect“ (Matthew 5:48). Talk about setting the bar high! Yet that’s our goal. Thankfully, Christ didn’t leave us without instructions. He repeatedly revealed the many facets of the Father’s character, often via parables. And perhaps the one that displays God’s forgiveness, patience, compassion and love most vividly is the story of the Prodigal Son.

Henri Nouwen’s observations on it are profound. For example: “I see how the story of the father and his lost sons powerfully affirms it wasn’t I who chose God, but God who first chose me. This is the great mystery of our faith. From all eternity we’re hidden ‘in the shadow of God’s hand‘ and ‘engraved on His palm.’ Before any human being touches us, God ‘forms us in secret‘ and ‘textures us‘ in the depth of the earth, and before any human being decides about us, God ‘knits us together in our mother’s womb.’ God loves us before any human can show love to us. He loves us with a ‘first’ love, an unlimited, unconditional love, wants us to be His beloved children, and tells us to become as loving as Himself.”

There’s no taller order.

R.C. Sproul preached: “Whatever else God’s love is, it is holy. His love is therefore characterized by the qualities that define holiness—transcendence and purity. First, God’s love is transcendent. It’s set apart and different from everything we experience in creation. Second, God’s love is pure. His love is absolutely flawless, having no selfishness, wickedness, or sin mixed in with it. God’s love is not ordinary or profane. It’s a majestic, sacred love that goes far beyond anything creatures can manifest. No shadow of evil covers the brightness of the pure glory of the love of God. The love of God is in a class by itself. It transcends our experience.”

In the parable the father, like God, displays a love that’s truly transcendent if not absolutely scandalous. Nouwen wrote: “God’s not the patriarch who stays home, doesn’t move, and expects His children to come to Him, apologize for their aberrant behavior, beg for forgiveness, and promise to do better. To the contrary, He leaves the house, ignoring His dignity by running toward them, pays no heed to apologies and promises of change, and brings them to the table richly prepared for them.”

J.I. Packer opined: “There are many today who talk about the love of God who are total strangers to the God of love. The divine love is commonly regarded as a species of amiable weakness, a sort of good-natured indulgence; it’s reduced to a mere sickly sentiment, patterned after human emotion. The truth is, as on everything else, our thoughts need to be formed and regulated by what’s revealed in Scripture. How little real love there is for God! One chief reason is because our hearts are so little occupied with His wondrous love for His people. The better we’re acquainted with His love – its character, fullness, blessedness – the more will our hearts be drawn out in love to Him.”

Jesus challenges His followers to imitate our Heavenly Father’s graciousness.

Nouwen asked: “Why do we pay so much attention to the sons when it’s the father who’s in the center; when it’s the father with whom I’m to identify? Why talk so much about being like the sons when the real question is: ‘Are you interested in being like the father?’ It feels somehow good to be able to say: ‘These sons are like me.’ It gives a sense of being understood. But how does it feel to say: ‘The father is like me?’ Do we want to be like the father? Do we want to be not just the one who’s being forgiven, but also the one who forgives; not just the one who’s being welcomed home, but also the one who welcomes home; not just the one who receives compassion, but the one who offers it as well?”

Our Lord didn’t merely “talk the talk.” He obediently “walked the walk.” He once told the hard-hearted Pharisees, “I tell you the solemn truth, the Son can do nothing on His own initiative, but only what He sees the Father doing. For whatever the Father does, the Son does likewise“ (John 5:19).

God’s love for us is matched only by His limitless compassion. Nouwen wrote: “If the only meaning of the story were that people sin but God forgives, I could easily begin to think of my sins as a fine occasion for God to show me His forgiveness. There would be no real challenge in such an interpretation. I’d resign myself to my weaknesses and keep hoping that eventually God would close His eyes to them and let me come home, whatever I did. Such sentimental romanticism is not the message of the Gospels.”

What’s the Gospel message? Jesus made it clear as a church bell on Easter. He said, “I give you a new commandment – to love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. Everyone will know by this that you are My disciples – if you have love for one another“ (John 13:34-35).

Nouwen spells out the lesson we’re to learn from this timeless parable: “If God forgives the sinners, then certainly those who have faith in God should do the same. If God welcomes sinners home, then those who trust in God should do likewise. If God is compassionate, then certainly those who love God should be compassionate as well. The God whom Jesus announces and in whose name He acts is the God of compassion, the God who offers Himself as example and model for all human behavior.”

Nouwen encapsulated the entire parable thusly: “This isn’t the picture of a remarkable father. This is the portrayal of God, whose goodness, love, forgiveness, care, joy, and compassion have no limits at all. Jesus presents God’s generosity by using all the imagery His culture provides, while constantly transforming it.”

The Incredible Love of the Father

Two of the characters in Jesus’ parable of the Prodigal Son are very relatable. The younger man thought he knew everything there was to know, grabbed his entire inheritance and proceeded to waste every bit of it, living it up like there was no tomorrow. Until the money ran out. He hit rock bottom when he found himself living and eating in a filthy pig sty so he dragged his sorry self home, tail between his legs. To his astonishment, his dad was tickled pink to have him back.

Henri Nouwen wrote a personal insight on what motivates so many of us to leave our spiritual home: “I’m so afraid of being disliked, blamed, put aside, passed over, ignored, persecuted, and killed, that I’m constantly developing strategies to defend myself and thereby assure myself of the love I think I need and deserve. And in doing so I move far away from my Father’s home and choose to dwell in a ‘distant country’.”

His older brother wasn’t happy to see Bubba at all. So when he saw the fuss his father was making over the slacker’s return he threw himself a pity party. His heart was filled with anger concerning the whole shebang. How dare his dad not only forgive his ungrateful brat of a sibling for disgracing their family name, but to host a massive and very festive kegger in his honor! He wanted nothing to do with it.

I assume most people, Christians included, can identify with either or both of the sons. I was the black sheep of my clan when I was in my 20s, doing whatever I pleased, chasing fame and fortune. But when my wild, carefree lifestyle left me with nothing I finally came to my senses and realized I had only one option – go back home. At the age of 30 I did so and lived with mom and dad a few weeks while I got my life in gear again. And, like the elder son, I’ve had my moments of feeling sorry for myself when my peers were getting what I thought I deserved.

Nouwen commented: “Often I catch myself complaining about little rejections, little impolitenesses, little negligences. There’s an enormous, dark drawing power to this inner complaint. Condemnation of others and self-condemnation, self-righteousness and self-rejection keep reinforcing each other in and ever more vicious ways. As I let myself be drawn into the vast interior labyrinth of my complaints, I become more and more lost until, in the end, I feel myself to be the most misunderstood, rejected, neglected, and despised person in the world.”

However, the person no one can relate to in the parable totally is the father because he illustrates God’s incredible, incomprehensible and downright miraculous love, compassion, patience and forgiveness He offers His adopted children. Though the father utters only a few words in the story, it’s his gracious mindset that Christ desires all His followers aspire to achieve. In short, the parable is about the character of our Heavenly Father.

John Calvin wrote: “By setting before us this admirable example of mildness in a man, Jesus designed to show in how much greater abundance we may expect it from Him who’s not only a Father, but the best and most merciful of all fathers, however ungrateful, rebellious, and wicked sons and daughters we may be, provided we only cast ourselves upon His mercy. And the better to assure us that He’s such a Father if we’re Christians, He’s been pleased to be called not only a Father, but our Father, as if we were pleading with Him after this manner: ‘O Father, who’s possessed of so much affection for Your children, and are so ready to forgive, we your children approach You and present our requests, fully persuaded You’ve no other feelings toward us than those of a father, though we’re unworthy of such a parent‘.”

I’ve heard many testimonies at Celebrate Recovery meetings. Many of them describe their birth father as being abusive, neglectful or AWOL and that those dubious attributes contributed heavily to the hurts, hangups and/or habits that have caused psychological trauma in their life. However, the father Christ presents in this parable is the loving Father who created our individual, eternal soul. He has no flaws, He’s perfect in all of His ways. No earthly father, regardless of how well he raises his offspring, can match how much our Father in heaven yearns for His children to embrace and lean into His supernatural affection for them, and to have them dwell in His presence forevermore.

Nouwen wrote: “In this story the heart of the father burns with an immense desire to bring his children home. Oh, how much would he have liked to talk to them, to warn them against the many dangers they were facing, and to convince them that at home can be found everything they search for elsewhere. How much would he have liked to pull them back with his fatherly authority and hold them close to himself so they wouldn’t get hurt.”

He added: “But his love is too great to do any of that. It cannot force, constrain, push, or pull. It offers the freedom to reject that love or to love in return. It’s precisely the immensity of the divine love that’s the source of the divine suffering. God, creator of heaven and earth, has chosen to be, first and foremost, a Father.”

Michael Youssef preached: “One way of fully understanding what our heavenly Father is like is to understand what Jesus is trying to tell us about Him. Nobody could reveal the Father better than the Son, right? People say to me, ‘How do you know God’? Well, you take a good look at Jesus. That’s how you know God. Jesus is the only one who could truly describe his Father perfectly. Nobody else could, and that’s why in Luke chapter 15 he paints the clearest picture of our heavenly Father you can find anywhere in the Scripture.”

The Older Sibling

In Jesus’ parable of the Prodigal Son, two of the family members wound up being happy as clams. The father was so elated over his youngest offspring’s return he threw a huge welcome home bash to celebrate the event. The young man, no doubt, was absolutely astounded that his dad, whom he’d disgraced immensely before splitting with his inheritance, would take him back without a reprimand. Both were relieved and filled with joy.

However, the elder son didn’t share their jubilation. Not one bit.

“Now his older son was in the field. As he came and approached the house, he heard music and dancing. So he called one of the slaves and asked what was happening. The slave replied, ‘Your brother has returned, and your father has killed the fattened calf because he got his son back safe and sound.’ But the older son became angry and refused to go in“ (Luke 15:15-28a).

It’s easy for us to say the older son was being a rude jerk about the situation. It’s hard for us to concede that many of us would react the same way.

Henri Nouwen expressed what many Christians are reticent to admit: “It’s strange to say this, but, deep in my heart, I’ve known the feeling of envy toward the wayward son. It’s the emotion that arises when I see my friends having a good time doing all sorts of things I condemn. I’ve called their behavior reprehensible or even immoral, but at the same time I often wondered why I didn’t have the nerve to do some of it or all of it myself.”

Matthew Henry commented: “This offended the elder sibling to the highest degree not only because he was resolved he would not himself join in the mirth, but because he would show his displeasure at it, and would intimate to his father that he should have kept his younger brother out. This shows what is a common fault. Those who’ve always been a comfort to their parents think they should have the monopoly of their parents’ favors, and are apt to be too sharp upon those who’ve transgressed, and to grudge their parents’ kindness to them.”

As I wrote earlier, it’s instinctive for us to be judgmental concerning the younger son and label him a “lost cause.” Nouwen steps on all our toes, writing: “The lostness of the elder son, however, is much harder to identify. After all, he did all the right things. He was obedient, dutiful, law-abiding, and hardworking. People respected him, admired him, praised him, and likely considered him a model son. Outwardly, he was faultless. But when confronted by his father’s joy at the return of his brother, a dark power erupts in him and boils to the surface. Suddenly, there becomes glaringly visible a resentful, proud, unkind, selfish person, one that had remained deeply hidden, even though it had been growing stronger and more powerful over the years. The lostness of the resentful ‘saint’ is so hard to reach precisely because it’s so closely wedded to the desire to be good and virtuous.”

Yet it’s not as if his father didn’t notice his absence from the party. “His father came out and appealed to him, but he answered his father, ‘Look! These many years I’ve worked like a slave for you, and I never disobeyed your commands. Yet you never gave me even a goat so that I could celebrate with my friends! But when this son of yours came back, who’s devoured your assets with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him!’“ (v.28b-30).

John MacArthur pointed out: “Guess what? The Pharisees and scribes just appeared in the story. They were angry that God, in Christ, was embracing sinners. That’s what ticked them off. And here they are in the story. They are, by the way, referred to earlier as the ninety-nine who need no repentance, never seeing themselves as sinners. Legalists like this, religious people, superficially religious people, are jealous of prodigals because inside they have the same lusts they’re never fulfilled. They have the same hankering for sin and iniquity, and they’re jealous and envious of those who play those out to the max and don’t care what people think. They do because their approach to garnering accolades is to conform outwardly. So here they are in the story.”

What Jesus says next describes our gracious Heavenly Father perfectly: “Then the father said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and everything that belongs to me is yours. It was appropriate to celebrate and be glad, for your brother was dead, and is alive; he was lost and is found‘“ (v.31-32).

Arthur Freeman commented: “The father loves each son and gives each the freedom to be what he can, but he can’t give them freedom they’ll not take nor adequately understand. The father seems to realize, beyond the customs of his society, the need of his sons to be themselves. But he also knows their need for his love and a ‘home.’ How their stories will be completed is up to them. The fact that the parable isn’t completed makes it certain the father’s love isn’t dependent upon an appropriate completion of the story. The father’s love is only dependent on himself and remains part of his character.”

In other words, God’s love for His adopted children isn’t predicated upon how “good” we are. It’s truly unconditional and every believer should be extremely grateful that it is.

Nouwen wrote: “The return of the elder son is becoming as important to me as – if not more important than – the return of the younger son. How will the elder son look when he’s free from his complaints, free from his anger, resentments, and jealousies? Because the parable tells us nothing about the response of the elder son, we’re left with the choice of listening to the Father or of remaining imprisoned in our self-rejection.”

The right attitude to have is obvious. Choose to love others as Jesus loves us.

The Prodigal Son

Luke 15 begins with the Pharisees warning everybody that Jesus blatantly “welcomes sinners and eats with them“ (v.2). Our Lord responds with two parables – the shepherd who’ll leave the 99 to find the one who’s lost and the one about a woman who literally turned her home upside down to locate a missing silver coin. He ends both by saying, “In the same way, I tell you, there’s joy in the presence of God’s angels over one sinner who repents“ (v.10).

But the parable he tells next is probably His best known – the story of the Prodigal Son. It not only involves the son but his brother and father, as well. If you’ve only heard about it but have never read the Scripture account, we’ll go one portion at a time:

“A man had two sons. The younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of the estate that will belong to me.’ So he divided his assets between them. After a few days, the younger son gathered together all he had and left on a journey to a distant country, and there he squandered his wealth with a wild lifestyle” (Luke 15:11-13).

Henri Nouwen, in his must-have book “The Return of the Prodigal Son“, commented, “The evangelist Luke tells it all so simply and matter-of-factly it’s difficult to realize that what’s happening is an unheard-of event: hurtful, offensive, and in radical contradiction to the most venerated tradition of the time.” The son had no right to ask for his inheritance until his father was deceased. In essence he was callously saying to his dad, “I can’t wait for you to die!“

“Then after he’d spent everything, a severe famine took place in that country, and he began to be in need. So he went and worked for one of the citizens of that country, who sent him to his fields to feed pigs. He was longing to eat the carob pods the pigs were eating, but no one gave him anything” (v.14-16).

Many of us can identify with the son. Nouwen confessed: “The sequence of events is quite predictable. The farther I run away from the place where God dwells, the less I’m able to hear the voice that calls me the Beloved, and the less I hear that voice, the more entangled I become in the manipulations and power games of the world.”

“But when he came to his senses he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired workers have food enough to spare, but here I am dying from hunger! I’ll get up and go to my father and say to him, “Father, I’ve sinned against heaven and against you. I’m no longer worthy to be called your son; treat me like one of your hired workers.” So he got up and went to his father” (v.17-19).

Nouwen wrote: “There is repentance here, but not a repentance in the light of the immense love of a forgiving God. It’s a self-serving repentance that offers the possibility of survival. It’s this God who makes me feel guilty. Submission to a legalistic God doesn’t create true inner freedom, but breeds only bitterness and resentment. One of the greatest challenges of the spiritual life is to receive God’s forgiveness. There’s something in us that keeps us clinging to our sins and prevents us from letting God erase our past and offer us a completely new beginning.”

“But while he was still a long way from home his father saw him and hugged his son and kissed him. Then his son said to him, ‘Father, I’ve sinned against heaven and against you; I’m no longer worthy to be called your son’” (v.21).

R.C. Sproul commented, “How he got to his father, we don’t know. He didn’t have money for a donkey, camel, or horse. We know he was in a far country. Presumably, the only way this young man could get home was by walking. His tattered clothes held the stench of the pigs. His shoes had disintegrated. As he stunk, he walked and walked with no shoes on his feet and his clothes filthy, tattered rags. Every step was painful. He could have stopped and decided to go back to his comfort with the pigs, but he kept on going.”

“But the father said to his slaves, ‘Hurry! Bring the best robe, and put it on him! Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet! Bring the fattened calf and kill it! Let us eat and celebrate, because this son of mine was dead and is alive again – he was lost and is found! So they began to celebrate” (v.22-24).

I expect that everyone listening to Jesus tell this parable felt absolutely aghast. No father in his right mind would do what this one did. There had to be retribution. There had to be punishment! But those consequences were nowhere to be found. Understand, Jesus was illustrating how merciful, forgiving, and compassionate our Heavenly Father is towards us. His grace is beyond amazing.

Sproul opined: “Nobody ever entered the kingdom of God saying: ‘Here I am, folks. Heaven wouldn’t be right without me.’ This is the only way you get to heaven: broken and dependent on grace and grace alone. No one’s ever entered the kingdom of God without wearing the robe of the righteousness of Christ. All our own righteousness, the Scriptures tell us, is as filthy rags. Just as God knelt and covered His shameful sinners, Adam and Eve, the first thing that happens to us when we’re born of the Spirit is that He covers us with the robe of Christ and its righteousness.”

Martyn Lloyd-Jones preached: “God’s love is active. It’s the mightiest activity in the world and it transforms everything. The love of God alone can give us a new start and a new chance. The love of God doesn’t merely talk about a new beginning, it makes a new beginning.”

We’ll delve into the brother’s shameful (yet predictable) reaction next time.

The Power of Persistent Prayer

Nothing in the Bible gets emphasized more than prayer. Some examples: “As for me, I’ll call out to God, and the LORD will deliver me. During the evening, morning, and noontime I’ll lament and moan, and He will hear me“ (Psalm 55:16-17). “Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great effectiveness“ (James 5:16). “Always rejoice, pray constantly, in everything give thanks. For this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus“ (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).

However, no one ever taught how to pray and how the Heavenly Father will respond more than Jesus. In His sermon on the mount He preached: “Ask and it’ll be given to you; seek and you’ll find; knock and the door will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. Is there anyone among you who, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you then, although you’re evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask Him?“ (Matthew 7:7-11). He also said there’s an essential caveat: “Whatever you ask in prayer, if you believe, you’ll receive“ (Matthew 21:22).

Will every one of a Christian’s requests be granted immediately? Perhaps, but not always. John MacArthur wrote: “Our prayers aren’t always answered instantly, on our preferred timetable. For reasons that are supremely wise, and gracious, and right – but often unknown and unexplained to us – God sometimes delays answering our prayers. Yet He encourages us to keep praying with persistence and passion, never losing faith and not growing faint.”

Luke chapter 18 begins with a poignant parable: “Jesus told the disciples a parable to show them they should always pray and not lose heart. He said, ‘In a certain city there was a judge who neither feared God nor respected people. There was also a widow in that city who kept coming to him and saying, “Give me justice against my adversary.” For a while he refused, but later on he said to himself, “Though I neither fear God nor have regard for people, yet because this widow keeps on bothering me, I’ll give her justice, or in the end she’ll wear me out by her unending pleas“ (v.1-5).

“Then the Lord said, ‘Listen to what the unrighteous judge says! Won’t God give justice to His chosen ones, who cry out to Him day and night? Will He delay long to help them? I tell you, He’ll give them justice speedily. Nevertheless, when the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on earth?‘” (v.6-8).

Understand that not only were widows and corrupt judges plentiful in that era, justice was often difficult to acquire. The self-righteous Pharisaical judges were bad enough but those appointed by Caesar were the worst of all, severely lacking in morals and scruples. Most likely the judge in Jesus’ parable was a Roman magistrate because he possessed no respect for God or people in general.

MacArthur commented: “In short, this judge was bereft of basic decency; lacking in nobility; devoid of natural affection. His own character was so barren of virtue most would consider him inhuman. And yet this parable is told to teach a positive lesson about God and how He answers our prayers – using the wicked behavior of this unrighteous judge as an illustration. This is very similar to the parable of the unjust steward in that Jesus was using a wicked person’s actions to depict something pure and righteous.”

Females across the globe in that time had few rights and widows were often neglected, poor, powerless, helpless, deprived, unknown, unloved, or otherwise desperate. However, this particular widow was bound and determined to be treated fairly by the court. She demanded justice, not special treatment. MacArthur opined: “It seems she was seeking redress for some injustice that had already been done to her. And her desperation suggests that everything had been taken from her. She had nothing to lose.”

So why did the judge finally give in? Simple. She kept bugging the dickens out of him. He wasn’t allowed to imprison her or have her killed so, because of her non-stop pleading he gave her what she asked for. It was all about him and his peace of mind, not for the sake of doing the right thing.

Don’t think for a moment that Christ implied His Father isn’t just. No way. R.C. Sproul preached: “Jesus was saying, ‘If this crooked, corrupt, miserable human being who holds the office of judge, who has no regard for God and no regard for people, will sometimes administer justice because he’s tired of people pleading for it, how much more will the Judge of heaven and earth vindicate His people who cry unto Him day and night?'”

It’s vital the reader bear in mind the context. Jesus had been speaking to the disciples about His Second Coming. He was commanding them to pray with relentless persistence that God would strengthen their resolve, that they wouldn’t give up hope, that the Father in heaven will make all things right when Jesus comes back to judge the world.

MacArthur wrote: “We continue to pray and plead for the return of Christ – not merely because we want to be vindicated, but also because we want Christ to be glorified. And when you live that way and pray that way and plead that way, it changes everything about your life.”

In the Celebrate Recovery ministry, I’ve seen the power of persistent prayer heal and change many lives. Sometimes that change is very gradual but the end result never fails to take place and amaze. If you’re feeling hopeless, pray for the power to repent of your sins and for God to restore you completely. He will.

Hard Truths About Hell

Nobody’s ever been as brutally honest about the horrors of hell than Jesus. He also pulled no punches when it came to describing who’ll spend eternity there. After telling the wealthy Pharisees, “You cannot serve God and money“ (Luke 16:13), they brazenly ridiculed Him publicly. Christ responded to their derision by giving them a frightening parable to mull over.

“There was a rich man who dressed in purple and fine linen, who feasted sumptuously every day. But at his gate lay a poor man named Lazarus whose body was covered with sores, who longed to eat what fell from the rich man’s table. In addition, the dogs came and licked his sores“ (Luke 16:19-21).

The rich man in the story epitomized a Jewish priest. John MacArthur wrote, “Such great wealth, then, as now, assured that he was highly influential. In whatever synagogue he belonged to, people would naturally defer to him. He was precisely the kind of person the average Israelite, under the teaching of the Pharisees, believed to be most assured of heaven.”

Contrast him with pitiful Lazarus who was in such horrible condition he’d been reduced to begging to survive. He was probably so repulsive most folks passed him by ASAP. He was totally destitute and helpless. MacArthur noted: “The Pharisees and their disciples would regard such suffering as proof that Lazarus was cursed by God. Of these two characters, he was the one whom they would’ve regarded as worthy of hell. In their view, he was as abominable as the circumstances of his life.”

At this juncture the parable takes a most unexpected twist. “Now the poor man died and was carried by the angels to Abraham’s side. The rich man also died and was buried. And in hell, as he was in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far off with Lazarus at his side“ (v.22-23).

The characters in Jesus’ parables are usually nameless. MacArthur commented: “Lazarus is named precisely to mark him with honor. His name (a form of Eleazar) means, ‘whom the Lord has helped.’ It evokes the idea of divine favor. By naming him, Jesus graciously lifts him out of the disgrace and anonymity so typical of beggars in that position. The rich man isn’t given a name, underscoring the fact he’s no longer important. He’s been stripped of his prominence, including his name, while the poor beggar has been given all the privileges of God’s eternal blessing.”

The rich man cried out, “Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, because I’m in anguish in this fire” (v.24). Notice he doesn’t plead to be rescued. Seeing Lazarus in paradise, the man he never stooped to help even once, he knew why he was in hell. Instead, his request is for a tiny drop of water. Yet it’s not forthcoming.

“But Abraham said, ‘Child, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things and Lazarus likewise bad things, but now he’s comforted here and you’re in anguish. Besides all this, a great chasm has been fixed between us, so those who want to cross over from here to you cannot do so, and no one can cross from there to us“ (v.25-26).

R.C. Sproul preached, “Our Lord was telling us there’s an unbridgeable chasm between heaven and hell; a chasm so wide you can’t go around it; so deep you can’t go under it. There’s no power on earth or in hell such that, once you’re there, you can escape and reach heaven. There’s no bridge between heaven and hell. The chasm represents the fixed and permanent position of hell. If you’re there, you’re there forever. Some are hearing me right now who’ll be there when they die. If you had any understanding of the reality of hell, you’d crawl on glass to the cross, to the only One who can bring you safely home for eternity.”

“So the rich man said, ‘Then I beg you, father – send Lazarus to my father’s house (for I have five brothers) to warn them so they don’t come into this place of torment“ (v.27-28).

Remarkably, even in hell he regards Lazarus as beneath him, a peon who’d obediently do whatever he asks. MacArthur opined: “Like anyone steeped in Pharisaical religion, his only concern is about a few people in his family. It’s normal, of course, to care for one’s siblings. But as we saw in the parable of the good Samaritan, the love required by the 2nd Great Commandment is much broader than that. Why order Lazarus back from heaven with a private warning for five brothers?”

The answer from Abraham is blunt. “They have Moses and the prophets; they must respond to them. Then the rich man said, ‘No, Father Abraham, but if someone from the dead goes to them, they’ll repent.’ He replied to him, ‘If they don’t respond to Moses and the prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead‘“ (v.29-31).

A footnote in the NET translation says: “The concluding statement of the parable provides a hint that even Jesus’ resurrection won’t cause some to respond. The message of God should be good enough. Scripture is the sign to be heeded.”

Sproul preached, “Truer words have never been spoken, because One has risen from the dead, the very One who told this parable, and we still don’t believe it. Think about that. If there’s a hell, and there is, it makes all the difference in the world for you, for everyone you know, and for everyone you love. God grant that we heed Jesus’ parable and let it pierce our souls and hearts.”

MacArthur concluded: “No miracle of any magnitude will convince someone who hears and understands the message of Scripture but rejects it anyway. Only the Holy Spirit can open blind eyes and melt hardened hearts to receive the Word.”

If we truly care about an unbeliever, we must warn them about hell.

A Puzzling Parable

The basic story is straightforward. It’s the ending that’s so odd.

“Jesus said to the disciples, ‘There was a rich man who was informed of accusations that his manager was wasting his assets. So he called the manager in and said to him, “What’s this I hear about you? Turn in the account of your administration, because you can no longer be my manager.” Then the manager said to himself, “What should I do, since my master is taking my position away from me? I’m not strong enough to dig, and I’m too ashamed to beg. I know what to do so that when I’m put out of management, people will welcome me into their homes.”

So he contacted his master’s debtors one by one. He asked the first, “How much do you owe my master?” The man replied, “A hundred measures of olive oil.” The manager said to him, “Take your bill, sit down quickly, and write fifty.” Then he said to another, “And how much do you owe?” The second man replied, “A hundred measures of wheat.” The manager said to him, “Take your bill, and write eighty.” The master commended the dishonest manager because he acted shrewdly. For the people of this world are more shrewd in dealing with their contemporaries than the people of light.’“(Luke 16:1-8).

No doubt the disciples collectively tilted their heads like a dozen old mules staring at a new gate. They’d grown accustomed to Christ’s parables containing strange twists and turns but this one was downright puzzling. What lesson was He trying to teach them?

Notice that the rich man’s admiration for his dishonest manager suggests that he, himself, wasn’t above doing the very same thing if he stood in his employee’s shoes. John MacArthur wrote: “It’s important to understand that the rich man in this story isn’t a figure of Christ. Jesus deliberately set this tale in the realm of secular business, where this sort of sinful, self-protective, Machiavellian maneuvering isn’t only common but is often deemed part of the game. Even in today’s world, rich businessmen often voice admiration for the shrewd but underhanded tactics of both rivals and partners. Such is the nature of business as usual in a godless realm.”

It also seems the crooked manager didn’t attempt to deny, cover up or excuse his fraudulent behavior. There was no way to change the past. Instead, he concentrated on securing his future. And that was the point Christ was making. He mentioned “people of this world.” They’re secularists, focused on amassing as much money and earthly comforts as they can so their retirement years will be comfortable because that’s all they have to look forward to. Whereas “people of light,” knowing they’ll spend eternity in paradise serving Jesus, should be devoting the time left in their lives on this planet to “accumulating treasures in heaven“ (Matthew 6:20).

Christ was being critical of short-sighted believers. MacArthur commented, “Compared to all the strategizing, maneuvering, twisting, and turning unbelievers go through to secure their future in this world, the “people of light“ display a distinct lack of wisdom.”

R.C. Sproul explained the parable thusly: “It’s not unusual for Jesus to talk like this. Elsewhere, He told us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves. We’re usually just the opposite of that in our actions as Christians. We’re harmless as doves, but we’re also as foolish as them, too. We’re not shrewd. We don’t think strategically. We don’t concern ourselves for the long haul, and certainly not for eternity. Jesus’ basic concern in this text was that just as this unjust steward looked out for his well-being for tomorrow, so believers are to look out for their future in heaven.”

Matthew Henry wrote: “The wisdom of worldly people in the concerns of this world is to be imitated by us in the concerns of our souls: it’s their principle to improve their opportunities, to do first that which is most needful, in summer and harvest to lay up for winter, to take a good bargain when it’s offered them, to trust the faithful and not the false. O that we were thus wise in our spiritual affairs!”

What Jesus told his disciples next is just as important. “I tell you, make friends for yourselves by how you use worldly wealth, so that when it runs out you’ll be welcomed into the eternal homes“ (v.9). Our Lord is instructing Christians to be generous with our fellow believers, our brothers and sisters in Christ. Especially those in need. In Matthew 25:35-40 Jesus said, “I was hungry and you gave Me food; I was thirsty and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger and you took Me in; I was naked and you clothed Me… Inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these, My brethren, you did it to Me.“

In verses 10-12 Christ states we’re stewards of the spiritual gifts God has given each of us: “The one who’s faithful in a very little is also faithful in much, and the one who’s dishonest in a very little is also dishonest in much. If then you haven’t been trustworthy in handling worldly wealth, who’ll entrust you with the true riches? And if you haven’t been trustworthy with someone else’s property, who’ll give you your own?“

MacArthur opined, “The tragic irony of sinful indulgence is the more you waste on yourself – the more stuff you accumulate in this life – the less treasure you’ll have in heaven.” We’re to never forget that “The things which are seen are temporary, but the things which aren’t seen are eternal“ (2 Corinthians 4:18).

Our Lord summed it all up succinctly, saying, “No servant can serve two masters, for either he’ll hate the one and love the other, or he’ll be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money“ (v.13). How we view and spend whatever wealth we’re blessed to receive reveals whether we’re sincere, obedient Christians or just pretending.

When, Lord? When?

For 2,000 years people have wondered when Jesus will return. Even His disciples wanted to know what He Himself didn’t know and He repeatedly told them that during His Olivet Discourse in Matthew 24-26. “As for that day and hour no one knows it – not even the angels in heaven except the Father alone“ (24:36). “Therefore stay alert, because you don’t know on what day your Lord will come“ (v.42). “The Son of Man will come at an hour when you don’t expect Him“ (v.44). “Stay alert, because you don’t know the day or the hour“ (25:13).

In essence, Jesus was encouraging His followers to not be overly concerned about when He’ll come back but instead to focus on remaining faithful to their calling in the meantime. To make it clear He offered them three parables, one after another, beginning with the story of two slaves.

“Who then is the faithful and wise slave, whom the master has put in charge of his household, to give the other slaves their food at the proper time? Blessed is that slave whom the master finds at work when he comes. I tell you the truth, the master will put him in charge of all his possessions. But if that evil slave should say to himself, ‘My master is staying away a long time,’ and he begins to beat his fellow slaves and eat and drink with drunkards, then the master will come on a day when he doesn’t expect him and at an hour he doesn’t foresee, will cut him in two and assign him a place with the hypocrites, where there’ll be weeping and gnashing of teeth“ (24:45-51).

In other words, believers aren’t to be lackadaisical about obeying the Great Commandment to spread the soul-saving Gospel message indiscriminately. Why? Because our Master’s return is imminent. It could be seconds from now!

The second’s the tale of the ten bridesmaids. “Five of the virgins were foolish, five were wise. When the foolish ones took their lamps they didn’t take extra oil with them. But the wise ones took flasks of oil with them. When the bridegroom was delayed, they all became drowsy and fell asleep. But at midnight there was a shout, ‘Look, the bridegroom is here! Come out and meet him.’ Then all the virgins woke up and trimmed their lamps. The foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, because our lamps are going out.’ ‘No,’ they replied. ‘There won’t be enough for you and us. Go to those who sell oil and buy some for yourselves.’ But while they’d gone to buy it, the bridegroom arrived, and those who were ready went inside with him to the wedding banquet. Then the door was shut. Later, the other virgins came too, saying, ‘Lord, lord! Let us in!’ But he replied, ‘I tell you the truth, I don’t know you!’ (25:1-12).

John MacArthur commented: “The point is simple: Christ (the bridegroom) is coming. He may arrive later than we expect, and we must be prepared for that possibility. That means remaining awake, staying at the watch, and being ready for Him no matter how late the hour. In fact, as time passes and His arrival draws closer, the need for watchfulness is greater, not less. The only time we can prepare for Him is now, because His sudden arrival will signal the end of all such opportunity. Those not ready when He arrives will be completely and permanently shut out of the wedding feast.”

The third’s the parable of the talents. It’s the longest by far so I’ll try to condense it. A rich man was going on a journey. He entrusted his slaves to oversee his wealth while he was gone. To one he gave five talents, to another two and to another one. (Understand that even a single talent was an immense fortune.) The first two invested their master’s money while the third buried his in the yard. When the master returned he praised and rewarded the slaves who earned him a profit. However, he was so disgusted with the slave who did nothing with his talent that he gave it to the other slaves. Jesus ended the story saying, “For the one who has will be given more, and he’ll have more than enough. But the one who doesn’t have, even what he has will be taken from him. Throw that worthless slave into the outer darkness where there’ll be weeping and gnashing of teeth“ (25:14-30).

Each of these parables serves as a warning and urges Christians not to listen to money-grubbing authors who foolishly predict Jesus’ return date. The first tells us not to assume He’s not coming anytime soon and risk becoming lazy stewards. Conversely, the second strongly advises us not to assume He’ll show up tonight, either. The third teaches us to use the remaining time we have to “let your light shine before people, so they can see your good deeds and give honor to your Father in heaven“ (Matthew 5:16).

MacArthur wrote: “All three exhort us to be ready. They contrast faithfulness and unbelief; wisdom and folly; preparedness and indifference. Those features are shown to be the defining characteristics that set authentic Christians apart from unbelievers. No one in any of these parables pictures a halfhearted or lukewarm ‘carnal Christian.’ That’s because Jesus Himself ruled out the possibility that such people exist. In His own words, ‘He who’s not with Me is against Me, and he who doesn’t gather with Me scatters‘ (Matthew 12:30).”

“A person isn’t a true believer at all if he has no real expectation of Christ’s return, no eagerness to meet Him, no love for His appearing. In fact, the lessons of these parables are the very same lessons saving grace teaches every true believer: ‘That, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly in the present age, looking for the blessed hope and glorious appearing of our great God and Savior Jesus Christ‘ (Titus 2:12-13).”

The Humble will be Exalted

Jesus’ parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector reveals the distinction between the two types of religion. There’s the false ones that insist the sole path to heaven is via human achievement whereas the true gospel of Christianity verifies the only way to receive eternal life is through divine accomplishment.

A brief summary of the parable is in order. Jesus was talking to His disciples about holier-than-thou folks who erroneously think their “good deeds” will cover their entry fee to paradise. He told a story about a Pharisee who stood in the temple courtyard and loudly thanked Yahweh for making him “superior”, not a disgusting sinner like the lowlifes he despised. He then singled out a tax collector as the worst of the worst. The tax collector knew he didn’t have anything to brag about. Humbled and ashamed, he beat his chest in anguish and pleaded for God to have mercy on the sinner he knew himself to be. Jesus ended the parable by saying that of the two men, only the latter went home justified.

John MacArthur commented: “If God graded human behavior on a curve, the Pharisees would’ve been at the head of the class. But Jesus was pointing out that God doesn’t adjust the scale of righteousness to accommodate human failure. His own righteousness is flawlessly perfect, and to lower that standard even slightly to accommodate our sin would make Him unholy.”

Only Christ’s bloody atonement provides the necessary righteousness God demands of us in order to gain eternal life. There’s no alternative. “God made the One who didn’t know sin to be sin for us, so that in Him we would become the righteousness of God“ (2 Corinthians 5:21). That righteousness cost our Lord His life. On the cross Jesus fulfilled an Old Testament prophecy: “He lifted up our illnesses, He carried our pain; even though we thought He was being punished, attacked by God, and afflicted for something He’d done. He was wounded because of our rebellious deeds, crushed because of our sins; He endured punishment that made us well; because of His wounds we’ve been healed“ (Isaiah 53:4-5).

In this parable lies the answer to the most important question of all – how can a sinner get right with God? The answer is grace. The entire doctrine of justification by faith is revealed and confirmed in this story. MacArthur wrote, “Jesus’ message is simple: all who are determined to establish a righteousness of their own will fail and thus condemn themselves; but those who submit to the righteousness of God are graciously justified by Him. No one can justify himself before God; God alone is ‘the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus‘ (Romans 3:26).”

No other religion except Christianity has a savior who’s died for our sins, was resurrected from the grave and literally ascended to the right hand of God. All others are still waiting for their Messiah to show. In the meantime they’re convinced they must earn their salvation, based on the righteous deeds they’ve done. Every survey taken across the globe shows that even agnostics assume they’re good enough on their own to merit heaven – or at least good enough for God not to send them to hell.

The problem? People think way too much of themselves. They can always point to somebody they consider more ungodly than themself. I’m as guilty as they come. Thus, I have to constantly remember what the Bible stresses: “We’re all like one who’s unclean, all our so-called righteous acts are like a menstrual rag in God’s sight“ (Isaiah 64:6).

Jesus preached, “If the light in you is darkness, how great is the darkness!“ (Matthew 6:23). John Calvin wrote of this verse, “What then? Man doubtless has been made subject to vanity – man reduced to nothing – man is nothing. And yet how is he whom God exalts utterly nothing? How is he nothing to whom a divine heart has been given? Although we’re nothing in our hearts, perhaps something of us may lurk in the heart of God. O Father of the miserable! How plantest thou thy heart in us? …We’re in the heart of God by His dignifying, not by our own dignity.”

This doctrine often gets misunderstood and/or distorted. John Murray wrote, “The truth of justification has suffered at the hands of human perversion as much as any doctrine of Scripture. It’s an old, time-worn objection that it ministers to license and looseness. Only those who don’t know the power of the gospel will plead such misconception. Justification is by faith alone, but not by a faith that is alone. Justification isn’t all that’s embraced in the gospel of redeeming grace. Christ is a complete Savior and it’s not justification alone that the believing sinner possesses in him. Faith isn’t the only response to the heart of him who’s entrusted himself to Christ for salvation. No one has entrusted himself to Christ for deliverance from the guilt of sin who hasn’t also entrusted himself to Him for deliverance from the power of sin.”

How do we know we sincerely believe in Jesus? Through repeatedly repenting of our sins. Charles Spurgeon wrote: “So long as God lives, there can be no promise of mercy to those who continue in their evil ways and refuse to acknowledge their wrongdoing. Surely no rebel can expect the King to pardon his treason while he remains in open revolt. No one can be so foolish as to imagine the Judge of all the earth will put away our sins if we refuse to put them away ourselves.”

MacArthur summarized this parable thusly: The damned think they’re good. The saved know they’re wicked. The damned believe the kingdom of God is for those worthy of it. The saved know it’s for those who realize how unworthy they are. The damned believe eternal life is earned. The saved know it’s a gift. The damned seek God’s commendation. The saved seek His forgiveness.”

Remain humble. Pray daily for forgiveness and mercy.

Justified by Faith Alone

The word “justification” is defined in the secular world as “the action of showing something to be right or reasonable.” In the Bible it means “the action of declaring or making righteous in the sight of God.” In the case of the latter, it’s not something anybody can do by themselves. Only believing in Jesus can change us from sinners to saints.

If not for Christ hell would be our destination. “But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared, He saved us not by works of righteousness that we’ve done, but on the basis of His mercy, through the washing of the new birth and the renewing of the Holy Spirit, whom He poured out on us in full measure through Jesus Christ our Savior. And so, since we’ve been justified by His grace, we become heirs with the confident expectation of eternal life“ (Titus 3:4-7).

Two thousand years ago the Pharisees were the top dogs, the most influential religious sect in Israel. Dedicated to following every iota of the Mosaic law, they were openly hostile to anyone who dared suggest a person could attain sanctification other than through unwavering obedience to it. Therefore, they viewed Jesus as a blasphemer, a threat that had to be eliminated ASAP.

John MacArthur wrote: “Unlike so many cults and false religions that are grossly unorthodox, overly diabolical, or blithely indifferent to the law of God, the Pharisees were traditionalists and idealists well known for their punctilious obsession with the smallest details of the law. Pharisaism is singled out in the New Testament not because it was some far-fetched brand of extreme human superstition, but because it represents the most slight and subtle departure from biblical truth. Despite all their attention to the law’s external details, they were utterly oblivious to the law’s central message. The law should’ve humbled them by showing them the magnitude of their guilt. Instead, it became a point of extreme pride to them.”

Jesus didn’t hesitate to publicly chastise the Jewish leaders for their unwarranted conceit. He told them, “Woe to you, experts in the law and you Pharisees, hypocrites! You clean the outside of the cup and the dish, but inside they’re full of greed and self-indulgence. Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup, so the outside may become clean too!” (Matthew 23:25-26). He was reprimanding them for ignoring the OT verse that states, “God doesn’t view things the way men do. People look on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart“ (1 Samuel 16:7).

Jesus never let the Pharisees off the hook for their uppity attitude. In fact, he doubled down. “Jesus also told this parable to some who were confident that they were righteous and looked down on everyone else. ‘Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood and prayed about himself like this: “God, I thank you that I’m not like other people: extortionists, unrighteous people, adulterers – or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week: I give a tenth of everything I get.” The tax collector, however, stood far off and wouldn’t even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, “God, be merciful to me, sinner that I am!” I tell you that this man went down to his home justified rather than the Pharisee. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but he who humbles himself will be exalted.’“ (Luke 18:9-14).

MacArthur commented: “As is true of many of our Lord’s stories, this parable wasn’t only counterintuitive but also shocking and shameful by every religious standard of the time. Jesus put Himself 180 degrees opposite the prevailing Jewish theology of salvation. More than that, He set His gospel against the teaching of every major world religion, against every doctrine that stems from natural theology, and against every innate notion of the fallen human heart.”

Of course, the Pharisees were furious, gnashing their teeth in rage. How dare He call them phonies! Weren’t they doing their best to do what He Himself had taught; to “be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect“ (Matthew 5:48)? If anybody was going to achieve perfection it would surely be them!

They deemed Jesus’ parable an unacceptable lowering of the divine standards they upheld. To imply that an illiterate, dirty, sin-filled commoner could become justified in the eyes of Yahweh while a highly-esteemed, devout priest would be rejected by God at the Pearly Gates was the epitome of insolence. What kind of God would do such an unfair thing?

MacArthur wrote: “That, of course is the very question the gospel answers. Because God has graciously provided an atonement through the death of Christ, He’s both ‘just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus‘ (Romans 3:26) and ‘He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness‘ (1 John 1:9).” In other words, where you’ve been and what you’ve done doesn’t matter to God. What does matter is who you believe Christ to be. That we can become justified by faith alone should amaze every one of us!

Charles Spurgeon preached: “Jesus came into the world to save sinners. To me that’s the greatest wonder I ever heard of, that God should ever justify me. I’m a lump of unworthiness, a mass of corruption, and a heap of sin apart from His almighty love. I know by a full assurance that I’m justified by faith which is in Christ Jesus, and treated as if I’d been perfectly just; and yet by nature I must take my place among the most sinful. I, who am altogether undeserving, am treated as if I’d been deserving. I’m loved with as much love as if I’d always been godly, whereas aforetime I was ungodly. Who can help being astonished at this?”

Indeed. Faith alone? It’s mind-blowing. We’ll delve deeper into Jesus’ profound parable next time.